Friday, October 31, 2008

Get That Ex Back - The Basics

By Esmeralda Redfield

So you lost your boyfriend and want him back.. First of all, I can go and tell you to find another guy, but hey, you are the one that has to decide!

If you are sure you want that guy back - try some or all of the methods we provide. The first and foremost rule in getting your ex back is also the most difficult: You have to find your own strength back.

Simply take a good look at yourself, and for this time don't be that tuff. Take your time to take a good look in the mirror, and compliment yourself on all the nice good things you see. (inside as well as outside!)

Take a trip down memory lane, and remember why your ex boyfriend used to like you so much.. What turned him on? What made him laugh? Those are some core feelings that you want to re-instore for him. Go back to the source, find what went away, and correct it!

Applying this method may have an immediate effect, which would be great. But even if it doesn't get you your ex boyfriend back yet, it will help you to raise your level of self esteem, and therefore make you more desirable!

A second important point is to avoid all contact when possible.

First of all - But you know this I hope? - Don't call him on his cell phone! This will only make him feel like you are stalking him.

If you follow his *ss around, if you try to be close to him and to get him on the phone every other minute.. Stop what you are doing! This is not helpful at all. He must know that he is missing out on a lot of sweet love, and he has to learn from you!

To get any guy back, you need to show him clearly that he has lost something that he can not replace! Then he will feel the itch for sure..

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